Mistreating your Girlfriend: Response Posts

"Advice for the girl, leave the damn guy! You shouldn’t be taking the crap that he throws at you. If any young girl is going through all that but still love him she should open your eyes, understand what you’ve got your self in and forget about him."

     This was from Fermin's blog post: Mistresting your Girlfriend. I love this blog post. Not only does he give great advice, but he also understands the girl's point of view. I completely agree with everything on this blog post, but the quote above, especially, applys to many girls in relationships. The slightest notion of a boy mistreating a girl should sound wrong to any person who knows anything about it, especially those who are in that kind of relationship.
     When a boy mistreats his girl, he has no right to complain when she breaks up with him because of the mistreatment. Many times, boys either do not realize the power they are imposing on the girl, but sometimes, he realizes what he is doing and thinks that he is correct in what his actions are. Girls, if a boy is mistreating you, you have every right in the world to break up with him even if it's an accident. No matter what it is, guys should be more conscious about how they are treating their girl if they care about them a lot. If a guy cares about the girl as much as they say, they wouldn't make the mistake of mistreating her and having the possibliity of losing her.
     Girls should also not be so sensitive to what guys do to them because boys don't pay attention to how they are treating them. If you think that your guy is treating you wrong, then you should tell him and give him a chance to change instead of jumping to conclusions that he's a bad boyfriend. You should always give him a chance to change before you do anything extreme like breaking up with him because sometimes, there are other things affecting him to make him do thing.
   As a conclusion, girls shouldn't overreact when boys don't treat them right, but when it gets extreme, BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!! Don't put up with mistreatment you dont' deserve, ever. Boys, pay more attention to how your're treating your girls if you want to keep them.